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    Cremation - a burning question

    Hello to all. I have a query about cremations which seems to be avoided, or I have not asked correctly.
    If a person is cremated and not buried, where is the details of that event to be found?
    Cemetery records may not show exactly where the ashes are! In fact they may be already scattered by the time we look for the event. My local cemetery has a wall for placing the ashes and there is a plaque and cover on the niche where the ashes container is located.
    Some details are recorded on the brass plate but not often to the extent usually seen on a tombstone.
    Which leads me to ask, is there a cremation list or site like 'find my grave? for tombstones?

    Some locals here have their cremated family member ashes installed, I guess, in the memorial rose garden of their church with a brass plaque listing just names of those buried, or just commemorated, on the church wall behind.
    Cremations are seldom mentioned in genealogy sites, but they are becoming more common as people move away from their family areas, overseas for instance.
    Plus more people are moving away from religion.
    Then there is the complication of a multi wife setup where the last wife or others, not related to anyone in the husband's family.
    My own death will result in my cremation, and my latest wife from overseas, will be cremated and installed alongside my plaque etc. few details included on either plaque.
    Noel Fields Australia
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    Researching Fields, Majewski, Watson, Hurwood, Parker.

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    Re: Cremation - a burning question

    Good question - My grandmother was cremated. I noted this in the 'Burial Memo' field. I also have a paragraph in her notes explaining why as there was a story behind it.

    I'd also like to know how others treat this.
    Thanks

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      #3
      Re: Cremation - a burning question

      Like you mention, I would use Notes. Here is an example:

      Memorial service at ________, ______, California, on xxx 28, 20__. Al was cremated and the immediate family later spread his ashes in the forest in the La Porte area in Northern California. This was one of Al
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        Re: Cremation - a burning question

        Originally posted by feelsrgreen View Post
        is there a cremation list or site like 'find my grave?
        Findagrave.com includes memorial pages for those who have been cremated, whether the ashes were scattered, buried, enurned, or where the final disposition of the ashes is unknown. Such memorials can be added via this form.
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          Re: Cremation - a burning question

          Yes, I have added FaG memorials for both my mother and mother-in-law whose ashes were scattered at sea, as well as for both my maternal grandparents (all through the Neptune Society):

          Barbara grew up in South Pasadena and attended South Pasadena High School. She graduated from Stanford University and spent a summer term at the University of Mexico in Mexico City. During her senior year at Stanford she was Business Manager for the Stanford Annual. In December 1943, after her graduation, she joined...


          Named after her brother George's wife, Marie, who helped to deliver her. Her brother, James, was going with a girl named Gertrude whom Carrie May liked so she picked Gertrude as a middle name but it was never recorded on the birth certificate. Marie grew up with her niece Beverly Jean Mock (who was nearly her own age.)...


          I suppose FaG should really consider the ocean another cemetery and let you slot people in to it as if it was an on-shore cemetery.

          Don

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            Re: Cremation - a burning question

            Hi,

            I find now that I have a few family members that have been cremated.

            What I have done is to amend the Burial entry in events to read Burial/Cremated
            and I can there enter what info I can find.

            My father was cremated in the UK, my mother in Australia with her ashes scattered
            in a "Rose Garden" in a local crematorium. Whereas my wife's father's ahes were scattered in another rose garden.
            I have a friend whose ashes were not placed anywhere but kept at home, and in another case ashes were divided with some scattered in the UK and the remainder here in Aust.

            Alan
            iMac 27" (late 2015) 2TB, 24GB Ram, (Monterey 12.3.1) iPad Pro 12.9" 256GB (Ios 14.4), iPhone 6S+ 128GB (Ios 14.4), Reunion 13,

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              Re: Cremation - a burning question

              As some of our relations were cremated, then later their ashes interred/buried in either a cemetery or in another case in a Memorial Garden (both with plaques) I added a cremation event (Gedcom 5.5 tag CREM) and filled the appropriate details in each event.
              Peter Cook
              Rossmoyne, Western Australia
              OSX 10.13.6 & iOS 12.4.6; Reunion 12.0 [200602];ReunionTouch 1.0.15

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                Re: Cremation - a burning question

                Some have their cremation remains turned into diamonds. See attached news article and opinion from local television broadcaster at CBC:
                The modern funeral industry has shifted its focus from a sombre remembrance of a loved one departed, to a new age celebration of another life which has done what all life does - come to an end after blazing or slowly burning its own unique trail, writes Azzo Rezori.
                Hayward...
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